How to add a gPXE ROM image directly into a VMware virtual machine

Please read the following article from etherboot.org

How to configure virtual machines to shutdown gracefully but not to start up automatically with a host

Please take a look at this VMware KB article:
Virtual Machines do not shut down gracefully

Troubleshooting VMware High Availability (HA)

Please read the following articles from VMware:
Troubleshooting VMware High Availability
Verifying and reinstalling the correct version of the VirtualCenter Server agents

Especially for ESXi use the following procedure to reinstall VirtualCenter HA agents:
 To determine the version and build number of your VirtualCenter installation, click Help > About from within VirtualCenter.
Right-click on the ESXi host and click Disconnect to disconnect the ESXi host from VirtualCenter.
Log in to ESXi Troubleshooting Mode.
Run the following command to determine the version of the VirtualCenter agent (vpxa) that is installed:

cat `ls -t /var/log/vmware/vpx/vpxa*` | head -1

The output appears similar to:

Log for VMware VirtualCenter Agent, pid=1976, version=2.5.0, build=build-147633, option=Release, section=394

Ensure that the output matches the information from first step. If the versions do not match, reinstall the agents.

Reinstalling the ESX host management agents and HA agents on ESXi

• Right-click on the ESXi host and click Disconnect.  This disconnects the ESXi host from the VirtualCenter Inventory.
• Log in to ESXi Troubleshooting Mode.Uninstall the vpxa and aam components from the VMware ESXi host using the following commands:

/opt/vmware/uninstallers/VMware-vpxa-uninstall.sh
/opt/vmware/uninstallers/VMware-aam-ha-uninstall.sh

• Right-click on the ESXi host and click Connect. This initiates a re-install of the vpxa agent.
• Add the host to the appropriate cluster. This initiates a re-install of the aam agent. 

If the agent fails to automatically install when connecting the ESX host in the vCenter Server:
Verify that /tmp/vmware-root exists on the ESX host. vCenter stages the vpxa RPM in this folder. To add this directory, execute:

mkdir -p /tmp/vmware-root

How to install Oracle 10g R2 in Windows 7

Copy oracle files in a folder on local hard disk.
Edit stage\prereq\client\refhost.xml file and add Windows OS like windows Vista
Open an elevated command prompt and run this command to start oracle installer:
setup.exe -ignoreSysPrereqs
Install Oracle as usual.